Something to be careful of... Some people create fires then act shocked when they are burned. Then they take to social media to get validation for their victim status. They tell one side of a story to get the reaction required to feed their victim stance. They don't care what effect this has on the person they vilify. In fact people love negative. Negative posts will get much more attention and comments than positive ones. And so it becomes a form of control and abuse. As the comments continue to stack up in the posters favor insulting the person they wrote about the poster is more and more validated and feels good so they keep doing it. They don't have any regard for anyone but themselves.
I ask you isn't it a contradiction, a hypocrisy that while making themselves appear kind hearted and loving by the distorted content of the post - the mere fact they are posting thusly shows their true intent to hurt and disparage another?
Shouldn't we as open hearted and loving individuals observe which bus we get on before we travel an injurious road. In looking at a one sided post are we taking sides? Are we commenting on a "story" ,a distortion or an actual happening?
And why does no one ask what actually happened.
I have lived over half a century. One thing I can tell you with great certainty is that no one "attacks without provocation".
While it is a choice to act or retreat no one does either without a trigger, a push or a reason of some kind. If someone is burned chances are they started a fire or at least had a hand in throwing some kindling in the stove. Facebook is both a bully's and a victim's dream platform. It is a place where we can incite sympathy or anger at the click of a button.
When I first joined FB I vowed to use it to promote positivity, wisdom and/or humor in a lol at myself way. I think I have done that.
I don't live my life on FB. You rarely see personal pictures of me with loved ones except for friends now and again. Rarely is there family or boyfriend photos. Its just not my style. I am a private person trying to function in acceptable parameters of social meter. I have learned what is acceptable to me. I do not post out of boredom or loneliness. I try not to post simply for validation. I live my life through my own two eyes I don't have a need for anyone elses eyes to be on me for no productive reason. I especially don't need to come here for sympathy, or negative reinforcement. I come here to be fun, lighthearted or stir hearts with my writing. I come here to educate with astrology and Spiritual theories. If I post a grrr type of post I try to make it funny in a relatable way so maybe we can learn from each other. I never specifically post about a person.
If I do mis step and post something that is not entirely positive or just plain stupid I delete it pretty quick.
I am private but truthful. If there is anything you want to know just ask. I will tell you if it's none of your business. I will tell you if I screwed up. I will tell you if I did a great job. I will tell you if YOUR screwed up..lol. But I will always tell you the truth. There are things the whole world on FB does not need to know. there are things my friends do need to know. There are things my friends already know. I am ballsy and compassionate, harsh and gentle, kind and sharp witted. Devoted and completely irreverent. Im driven and focused and will alternate between telling you to get out of my way and stooping down to carry you.
My Scorpio moon sometimes sting. My Sag humor will have you in stitches and my Libra heart will always keep score and see your side too. It's all fair and balanced and usually motivated by love. But I have boundaries. Don't walk across my fire and cry when you get burned.
When another chooses to attack and disparage me and make me a vilain by distorting the truth or maybe I should say by posting "their" truth, I don't respond. Th best we can do is send love and shine on!
I will simply let the essence of me and and the love I stand for be the answer.
Spiritual Healer, Energetic Medium
This Blog is the story of the miracles, challenges and lessons of my life journey. Years ago when I hit a personal "rock bottom" my despair led me to seek answers and my quest for truth began. Amazing events propelled me on a spiritual journey of transformation.. Miraculously, through these experiences my life has become my teacher and my friend.... I hope my words connect us and allow us to walk together for a time as teacher and friend to each other. The most valuable thing we have during this human experience is our connection to love. The love in our soul for a higher power and others is the only thing that is real. I honor these connections through my writing. Theses words are my gift inspired through the heart of Spirit for you. I hope by sharing my journey it will enlighten, inspire and ease yours as it does mine >> ... Peace... Georgia Rose